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on Monday, 08 December 2014
birthnotice-176You might read this and think it is an extreme of what parenting is all about. How wrong. What next?

Let me enlighten you why I believe Mama and Papa Bogert are precisely the kind of mum and dad I would hope are the norm rather than the exception. Reason being, unconditional love and acceptance.

Parenting is a tough gig. There are no guarantees. And just when you start to feel comfortable and think you know your offspring, they surprise you…not always in a good way, or with something you might be completely unprepared for.

On so many levels giving birth to a daughter who rejects your expectations and challenges what society also presumes is acceptable behaviour can be a humdinger of a situation.

And yet Kai gets to grow up, learn, and discover life and the best in people through his parents.

“It is all very new to us. Kai told me a few days ago that he no longer wanted to live as a girl”, Mrs Bogert said.

“I need to show my son I support him 100 per cent and wanted to let the world know that”.

And she does it with grace and humour and a good dose of reality. “Tidy your room”.

Now that’s a mum who is a real parent.

Babysitters

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on Friday, 27 June 2014
Another long week is over and you are in dire need of a night out. Dinner without someone complaining the carrots are too orange, a non-animated movie, or adult conversation unrelated to offspring is the only cure.

Having children means micro-managing other humans to care for your babies and having the confidence that you will hopefully not receive a call to race to emergency because little Jenny has lodged a chickpea up her nostril, and that when you return home the house is intact and maybe the dishwasher has been emptied by a compassionate soul.

So how do you find this saviour of your emotional and mental state? And where?

Even nannies and regular go-to carers need time off so out comes your list.

1. Grandparents adore your mini-me possibly more than you do at times. But they live too far/ already have plans/aren’t responsible enough to put them to bed before delirium ensues. You appreciate their unconditional love and patience but the aftermath is almost too exhausting.

2. Other friends with kids with whom you can trade sitting nights, much like the barter system. However, beware to choose your candidates carefully as you might just get lumped with agitators so insufferable you will need to immediately sever contact with their entire clan.

3. Friends without offspring uninformed and idealistic about the bewitching bed time hours have a romantic image they will be baking biscuits with no mess or playing only 15 minutes of ninja battles. You may never hear from these “friends” ever again.

4. Local teenagers in need of pocket money are always eager and usually available at short notice (it’s how I started my fledgling career), though their value may be more inflated than you may initially imagine. A well-stocked larder for their insatiable stomachs, at the very least, Wi-Fi when they are ignoring your children because it’s the end of the world if they are offline even for a nanosecond, and the inevitable lift home when all you want to do is crash in bed before the dawn wake-up.

5. Your partner is a final option if it’s a girl’s/boy’s night out. This situation is wrought with all sorts of conundrums so I suggest you channel your inner 5-star general when laying out the game plan.

You love your babies and would lay down your life for their happiness but remember to make time for your own. Sanity and happiness sometimes takes mammoth energy to succeed.


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