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Those Jones-es

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I just wonder if they think I'm a DREADFUL mum?' a self-crucifying (yet highly successful) mother confessed to me earlier this week over a steaming cup of hot coffee. And she wasn't referring to her children's assessment of her parental skills either. This inherent fear of judgement was attributed to those other mums at the school gates. I quickly reassured her and moved on.

'Do you think that they think that we are totally MAD?' a friend asked me a couple of days later as I sprinted to catch a bus in the pouring rain. I honestly had no idea who or what she was talking about but pacified her all the same.

'But what will THEY say if we book a holiday THERE?' He asked me last last night. I was too tired to even respond, let alone question.

But, right here and now - after these three questions and so, so many more - I am realising that I (quite frankly) don't give a damn what the next person thinks about any personal decisions I make in my life. Anyone disapproving or querying or even daring to judge me is quite frankly irrelevant if that decision works for me and us and them. Actually, it doesn't even cross my mind to peer over the garden fence to see how and why others lead their lives.

Am I'm in the minority and do most others care about those ever-present Jones-es. In reality, I can't see how this over the shoulder glancing could ever work out well. Of course it's human nature to want to be liked and accepted but a burning need to 'fit in' will absolutely prevent you from being YOU. Besides, all humans are constantly in a state of flux so, just when you're finally slotting in, someone somewhere will change their view and you'll be flung back out in the cold.

Those Jones-es

Posted by Mum About Town
Mum About Town
Guest has not set their biography yet
User is currently offline
on Monday, 26 October 2015
I just wonder if they think I'm a DREADFUL mum?' a self-crucifying (yet highly successful) mother confessed to me earlier this week over a steaming cup of hot coffee. And she wasn't referring to her children's assessment of her parental skills either. This inherent fear of judgement was attributed to those other mums at the school gates. I quickly reassured her and moved on.

'Do you think that they think that we are totally MAD?' a friend asked me a couple of days later as I sprinted to catch a bus in the pouring rain. I honestly had no idea who or what she was talking about but pacified her all the same.

'But what will THEY say if we book a holiday THERE?' He asked me last last night. I was too tired to even respond, let alone question.

But, right here and now - after these three questions and so, so many more - I am realising that I (quite frankly) don't give a damn what the next person thinks about any personal decisions I make in my life. Anyone disapproving or querying or even daring to judge me is quite frankly irrelevant if that decision works for me and us and them. Actually, it doesn't even cross my mind to peer over the garden fence to see how and why others lead their lives.

Am I'm in the minority and do most others care about those ever-present Jones-es. In reality, I can't see how this over the shoulder glancing could ever work out well. Of course it's human nature to want to be liked and accepted but a burning need to 'fit in' will absolutely prevent you from being YOU. Besides, all humans are constantly in a state of flux so, just when you're finally slotting in, someone somewhere will change their view and you'll be flung back out in the cold.


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